When Your Heart Needs A Whisper

Dear Child,

as adult as you feel, remember:

Shhhhhhh

Shhhhhhhh

Let me whisper this to your soul.

EVERYTHING will be okay.

Right now, you feel numb, detached, unable to imagine joy.

These feelings consume you.

Breathe their immense force deliberately into you.

Shhhhhh.

Shhhhhh

Gently put those feelings down onto the floor.

Now listen to your heartbeat,

Place your hand on your heart.

Feel yourself breathing

Sit still.

Sit very very still.

And close your eyes.

Let everything that comes up, flow through you.

Feel its ebb and flow.

See, my dear friend – today you got through it.

Today was a good day.

Because you got through it.

Hugs to you

All my love,

~ Evgenia Pimżin

Thursday, 20 November 2025

People sometimes ask where Evgenia Pimzin comes from, and the simplest answer is the truest one:
I was named after my grandfather.

I never met him—he died in his late twenties, long before I was born. Yet his name has always followed me like a quiet thread woven through my life. A soft tug at the edge of my awareness. There is something powerful about a lineage I never touched, yet somehow feel the pulse of within me, as if the story lives in my bones even though no one ever told it to me.

Taking the feminine form of his name feels like a returning – a way of honouring a life that ended too early, and the silence that followed him through the generations.

Sometimes I think names choose us.
Sometimes the ones we belong to are the ones we never had the chance to know.
And sometimes, without meaning to, we become the continuation of a story someone else could not finish.

I like to believe this is so.